Tag Archives: 12 Steps

Only everything.

Posted on October 11, 2011 by Mother Beth Tjoflat

Folks in Alcoholics Anonymous often give prospective members the following reassurance: We will only ask you to change this one thing — EVERYTHING.  Them thar are fightin’ words.  A person would have to be pretty desperate to stick around to … Continue reading →

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Enlighten the darkness

Posted on October 5, 2011 by Mother Beth Tjoflat

These words can roll off the tongue with relative ease when we are speaking of the darkness “over there.”  Someone needs to take a look at that person, group or institution over there and cast a light on what exactly … Continue reading →

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Grudgual: slow, incremental spiritual growth, initially resisted.

Posted on September 26, 2011 by Mother Beth Tjoflat

This morning a friend characterized his spiritual experience as being of the “grudgual” variety.  It took a very long time – and some pretty desperate circumstances – for him to get comfortable with the possibility of a loving, all-powerful, creative … Continue reading →

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A new name: living into ‘mother’

Posted on September 13, 2011 by Mother Beth Tjoflat

When I was a young girl in the Episcopal Church, there were never any females at the altar.  Acolytes were always boys and priests men.  The first time I saw a woman at the altar was strange and took getting … Continue reading →

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